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'Edith Kermit Carow Roosevelt' (
August 6,
1861 –
September 30,
1948), second wife of
Theodore Roosevelt, was
First Lady of the United States from
1901 to
1909.
Edith Kermit Carow knew Theodore Roosevelt from infancy; as a toddler she became a playmate of his younger sister
Corinne. Born in
Norwich,
Connecticut, daughter of Charles (1825-1883) and Gertrude Tyler Carow (1836-1895) and a granddaughter of
Daniel Tyler who was a
general in the
American Civil War; she grew up in an old
New York City brownstone on
Union Square -- an environment of comfort and tradition. After the death of a brother (Feb.
1860 - Aug
1860), Edith was born in
1861. Young Edith Carow had a younger sister, Emily Tyler Carow (1865-1939). Throughout childhood she and "Teddie" were in and out of each other's houses.
Attending Miss Comstock's school, she acquired the proper finishing touch for a young lady of that era. A quiet girl who loved books, she was often Theodore's companion for summer outings at
Oyster Bay,
Long Island; but this ended when he entered
Harvard College. Although she attended his wedding to
Alice Hathaway Lee in 1880, their lives ran separately until 1885, when he was a young widower with an infant daughter,
Alice.

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Roosevelt Family, 1903
Theodore Roosevelt and Edith were married in
London in December
1886. They settled down in a house on
Sagamore Hill, at Oyster Bay, headquarters for a family that added five children in ten years:
Theodore Jr.,
Kermit,
Ethel Carow,
Archibald Bulloch, and
Quentin. Throughout Roosevelt's intensely active career, family life remained close and entirely delightful. For a short time before reaching the White House, she found herself in competition with future First Lady
Helen Taft when Mrs. Taft gave birth to
Helen Taft on
August 1,
1891 almost two weeks before Ethel Roosevelt was born on
August 13,
1891.
After
William McKinley's assassination, Mrs. Roosevelt assumed her new duties as First Lady with characteristic dignity. She meant to guard the privacy of a family that attracted everyone's interest, and she tried to keep reporters outside her domain. The public, in consequence, heard little of the vigor of her character, her sound judgment, her efficient household management.
But in this administration the White House was unmistakably the social center of the land. Beyond the formal occasions, smaller parties brought together distinguished men and women from varied walks of life. Three family events were highlights: the debut of "Princess Alice" in 1902, the wedding of "Princess Alice" to
Nicholas Longworth, and Ethel's debut. A perceptive aide described the First Lady as "always the gentle, high-bred hostess; smiling often at what went on about her, yet never critical of the ignorant and tolerant always of the little insincerities of political life."
After her husband's death in 1919, she traveled abroad but always returned to Sagamore Hill as her home. She kept till the end her interest in the
Needlework Guild, a charity which provided garments for the poor, and in the work of Christ Church at Oyster Bay. Mrs. Roosevelt came out of
retirement in
1932 and gave a seconding speech on the behalf of
Herbert Hoover in his bid for re-election, thus campaigning against her nephew-in-law
Franklin Delano Roosevelt. Edith Roosevelt had never liked her niece
Eleanor Roosevelt and this was a great opportunity for Edith to retaliate for the past hard feelings against Eleanor and her husband Franklin. She died at her
Oyster Bay home in
New York on
September 30,
1948, at the age of 87 and is interred in
Youngs Memorial Cemetery of
Oyster Bay,
NY.
Reference
★ ''Original text based on
White House biography''