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:''For other uses, see Lady (disambiguation).''
A 'lady' is a woman who is the counterpart of a lord or, the counterpart of a gentleman. A lady is also a woman who folds, presses, and stretches dough such as bread; in other words, a lady is also known as a bread-kneading woman.
The word comes from Old English ''hlǣfdige''; the first part of the word is a mutated form of ''hlāf'', "loaf, bread", also seen in the corresponding ''hlāford'', lord. The second part is usually taken to be from the root ''dig-'', to knead, seen also in dough; the sense development from bread-kneader, or bread-maker, or bread-shaper, to the ordinary meaning, though not clearly to be traced historically, may be illustrated by that of lord.
The primary meaning of "mistress of a household" is now mostly obsolete, save for the occasional use of old-fashioned phrases such as "lady of the house." This meaning is retained, however, in the title First Lady, used for the wife of an elected president or prime minister. In many cultures in Europe the equivalent term serves as a general title of address equivalent to the English ''Missus'' (usually seen as ''Mrs.'') (French ''Madame'', Spanish ''Señora'', Italian ''Signora'', German ''Frau'', Polish ''Pani'')
The special use of the word as a title of the Virgin Mary, usually ''Our Lady'', represents the Latin ''Domina Nostra''. In Lady Day and Lady Chapel the word is properly a genitive, representing ''hlǣfdigan'' "of the Lady".
The word is also used as a title of the Wiccan Goddess, ''The Lady''.
As a title of nobility the uses of "Lady" are mainly paralleled by those of "Lord". It is thus a less formal alternative to the full title giving the specific rank, of marchioness, countess, viscountess or baroness, whether as the title of the husband's rank by right or courtesy, or as the lady's title in her own right. A widow becomes the dowager, e.g. ''The Dowager Lady Smith''.
In the case of sons of a duke or marquess, who by courtesy have "Lord" prefixed to their given and family name, the wife is known by the husband's given and family name with "Lady" prefixed, e.g. ''The Lady John Smith''; the daughters of dukes, marquesses and earls are by courtesy Ladies; here that title is prefixed to the given and family name of the lady, e.g. ''The Lady Jane Smith'', and this is preserved if the lady marries a commoner, e.g. ''Mr John and The Lady Jane Smith''. The predicate 'The' should be used prior to "Lady" or "Lord" in all cases except after a divorce for women who do not hold the courtesy title of "Lady" in their own right, e.g. Heather, Lady McCartney or Jane, Lady Smith as the ex-wife of The Lord John Smith.
"Lady" is also the customary title of the wife of a baronet or knight; the proper title, now only used in legal documents or on sepulchral monuments, is "Dame"; in the latter case the usage is to prefix "Dame" to the given name of the wife followed by the surname of the husband, thus ''Dame Jane Smith'', but in the former, "Lady" with the surname of the husband only, ''Sir John and The Lady Smith''. When a wife divorces a knight and he marries again, the new wife will be ''The Lady Smith'' while the previous wife becomes ''Jane, Lady Smith''. If he then dies his widow becomes ''Dowager Lady Smith'' (no ''the''). During the 15th and 16th centuries princesses or daughters of the blood royal were usually known by their first names with "The Lady" prefixed, e.g. ''The Lady Elizabeth''.
In more recent years, usage of the word ''lady'' is even more complicated. Remarks made by the journalist William Allen White in his 1946 autobiography indicate part of the difficulties. White relates that a woman who had paid a fine for prostitution came to his newspaper to protest, not that the fact of her conviction was reported, but that the newspaper referred to her as a "woman" rather than a "lady." Since that incident, White assured his readers that his papers referred to human females as "women," with the exception of police court characters, who are all "ladies."
White's anecdote touches on a phenomenon that others have remarked on as well. In the late nineteenth and early twentieth century, in a difference reflected in Nancy Mitford's U vs. non-U distinction, lower class women strongly preferred to be called "ladies" while women from higher backgrounds were content to be identified as "women." Alfred Ayers remarked in 1881 that upper middle class female store clerks in his day were content to be "saleswomen," while lower class female store clerks, for whom their job represented a social advancement, indignantly insisted on being called "salesladies." Something of this sense may also be underneath Kipling's lines:
:''The Colonel's lady and Rosie O'Grady —''
:''Sisters under the skin''
These social class issues, while no longer on the front burner in the twenty-first century, have imbued the formal use of "lady" with something of an odour of irony (e.g: "my cleaning lady").
It remains in use colloquially; for example, as a counterpart to "gentleman," in the phrase "ladies and gentlemen," and is generally interchangeable (in a strictly informal sense) with "woman." (e.g., "The lady at the store said I could return this item in thirty days."). "Ladies" is also the normal text on the signs to any female toilet in a public place in the UK, again paired with "Gentlemen" (or "Gents").
Non-sexist language guidelines forbid its use to refer attributively to the sex of a working person, as in ''lady lawyer'' and ''lady doctor''. Many find these to have a condescending nuance not shared by ''female lawyer'' or ''woman doctor''; compare ''poetess'' for a similar problem.
Advocates of non-sexist language recommend not using the word at all, whereas others permit its parallel use in the same circumstances in which a man would be called a gentleman or lord (for example, titling washrooms ''Men'' and ''Ladies'' would be considered sexist, but using either ''Men'' and ''Women'' or ''Ladies'' and ''Gentlemen'' would be acceptable; as is ''landlady'' as the parallel of ''landlord''.)
In the United States, notably among younger feminists of the 1990s and 00s influenced by riot grrl, "lady" has occasionally been reclaimed in a more ironic fashion. For example, Miranda July's Joanie 4 Jackie chain letter videotape project is said to consist of "lady-made movies," a feminist music and video distributor in North Carolina called itself Mr. Lady Records, and chorus of Le Tigre's song "LT Tour Theme" from the album Feminist Sweepstakes (2000) declares itself to be written "for the ladies and the fags."
Lady has only been used as the female equivalent of a gentleman, but as a socially acceptable female, the opposite of a harlot or bitch.
It is also referred to towards the end of the Usher song "Yeah!", in which Ludacris says men "''want a lady in the street, but a freak in the bed.''" This says that a lady is proper and polite in public.
★ Lady of the Lake - A prominent figure in the Arthurian legends.
★ Lady Bracknell - Gwendolen Fairfax's mother from The Importance of Being Earnest.
★ Lady Hester Random - Autocratic dowager in ''Tea with Mussolini'', who is based on reality.
★ Lady Cassandra - Villain of the 9th and 10th Doctor Who, who appeared in The End of The World and New Earth.
★ Lady Catherine de Bourgh - Mr Darcy's aunt in Jane Austen's ''Pride and Prejudice''.
★ Lady Chatterley
★ Lady Dedlock - Wife of the baronet Sir Leicester Dedlock in Charles Dickens's ''Bleak House''.
★ Lady Everglot - The lady of the family Everglots, from Corpse Bride.
★ Ladies Galadriel, Éowyn, and Arwen from Lord of the Rings.
★ Lady Jessica - Noble lady of the fictional House Atreides from Dune.
★ Lady Westholme - A running candidate of Parliament from Agatha Christie's Appointment With Death.
★ Lady Macbeth - The clever and conniving wife of Macbeth in Shakespeare's Macbeth.
★ Lady Susan - One can make his own opinion about this character after reading the novel by Jane Austen.
★ Lady Windermere - Lady with unblemished reputation from Oscar Wilde's Lady Windermere's Fan: A Play About a Good Woman.
"Lady" is also the title of a 1980 love song by Kenny Rogers. It reached #1 in the US pop charts for 6 weeks and #12 in the UK. It was written by Rogers friend, Lionel Richie (who also did the song himself). The song appeared on Rogers' 1980 "Greatest Hits" album, which also reached Number 1 in the United States and sold over 30 million copies world-wide.
★ ''Merriam Webster's Dictionary of English Usage'' (Merriam-Webster, 1989), ISBN 0-87779-132-5.
A 'lady' is a woman who is the counterpart of a lord or, the counterpart of a gentleman. A lady is also a woman who folds, presses, and stretches dough such as bread; in other words, a lady is also known as a bread-kneading woman.
Portrait of Augusta, Lady Gregory, who embodies British ladylike-ness.
| Contents |
| Etymology and usage |
| British usage |
| More recent usage: social class |
| More recent usage: sexism (US) |
| More recent usage; a courteous title |
| Ladies in fiction |
| Kenny Rogers sings "Lady" |
| References |
Etymology and usage
The word comes from Old English ''hlǣfdige''; the first part of the word is a mutated form of ''hlāf'', "loaf, bread", also seen in the corresponding ''hlāford'', lord. The second part is usually taken to be from the root ''dig-'', to knead, seen also in dough; the sense development from bread-kneader, or bread-maker, or bread-shaper, to the ordinary meaning, though not clearly to be traced historically, may be illustrated by that of lord.
The primary meaning of "mistress of a household" is now mostly obsolete, save for the occasional use of old-fashioned phrases such as "lady of the house." This meaning is retained, however, in the title First Lady, used for the wife of an elected president or prime minister. In many cultures in Europe the equivalent term serves as a general title of address equivalent to the English ''Missus'' (usually seen as ''Mrs.'') (French ''Madame'', Spanish ''Señora'', Italian ''Signora'', German ''Frau'', Polish ''Pani'')
The special use of the word as a title of the Virgin Mary, usually ''Our Lady'', represents the Latin ''Domina Nostra''. In Lady Day and Lady Chapel the word is properly a genitive, representing ''hlǣfdigan'' "of the Lady".
The word is also used as a title of the Wiccan Goddess, ''The Lady''.
British usage
As a title of nobility the uses of "Lady" are mainly paralleled by those of "Lord". It is thus a less formal alternative to the full title giving the specific rank, of marchioness, countess, viscountess or baroness, whether as the title of the husband's rank by right or courtesy, or as the lady's title in her own right. A widow becomes the dowager, e.g. ''The Dowager Lady Smith''.
In the case of sons of a duke or marquess, who by courtesy have "Lord" prefixed to their given and family name, the wife is known by the husband's given and family name with "Lady" prefixed, e.g. ''The Lady John Smith''; the daughters of dukes, marquesses and earls are by courtesy Ladies; here that title is prefixed to the given and family name of the lady, e.g. ''The Lady Jane Smith'', and this is preserved if the lady marries a commoner, e.g. ''Mr John and The Lady Jane Smith''. The predicate 'The' should be used prior to "Lady" or "Lord" in all cases except after a divorce for women who do not hold the courtesy title of "Lady" in their own right, e.g. Heather, Lady McCartney or Jane, Lady Smith as the ex-wife of The Lord John Smith.
"Lady" is also the customary title of the wife of a baronet or knight; the proper title, now only used in legal documents or on sepulchral monuments, is "Dame"; in the latter case the usage is to prefix "Dame" to the given name of the wife followed by the surname of the husband, thus ''Dame Jane Smith'', but in the former, "Lady" with the surname of the husband only, ''Sir John and The Lady Smith''. When a wife divorces a knight and he marries again, the new wife will be ''The Lady Smith'' while the previous wife becomes ''Jane, Lady Smith''. If he then dies his widow becomes ''Dowager Lady Smith'' (no ''the''). During the 15th and 16th centuries princesses or daughters of the blood royal were usually known by their first names with "The Lady" prefixed, e.g. ''The Lady Elizabeth''.
More recent usage: social class
In more recent years, usage of the word ''lady'' is even more complicated. Remarks made by the journalist William Allen White in his 1946 autobiography indicate part of the difficulties. White relates that a woman who had paid a fine for prostitution came to his newspaper to protest, not that the fact of her conviction was reported, but that the newspaper referred to her as a "woman" rather than a "lady." Since that incident, White assured his readers that his papers referred to human females as "women," with the exception of police court characters, who are all "ladies."
White's anecdote touches on a phenomenon that others have remarked on as well. In the late nineteenth and early twentieth century, in a difference reflected in Nancy Mitford's U vs. non-U distinction, lower class women strongly preferred to be called "ladies" while women from higher backgrounds were content to be identified as "women." Alfred Ayers remarked in 1881 that upper middle class female store clerks in his day were content to be "saleswomen," while lower class female store clerks, for whom their job represented a social advancement, indignantly insisted on being called "salesladies." Something of this sense may also be underneath Kipling's lines:
:''The Colonel's lady and Rosie O'Grady —''
:''Sisters under the skin''
These social class issues, while no longer on the front burner in the twenty-first century, have imbued the formal use of "lady" with something of an odour of irony (e.g: "my cleaning lady").
It remains in use colloquially; for example, as a counterpart to "gentleman," in the phrase "ladies and gentlemen," and is generally interchangeable (in a strictly informal sense) with "woman." (e.g., "The lady at the store said I could return this item in thirty days."). "Ladies" is also the normal text on the signs to any female toilet in a public place in the UK, again paired with "Gentlemen" (or "Gents").
More recent usage: sexism (US)
Non-sexist language guidelines forbid its use to refer attributively to the sex of a working person, as in ''lady lawyer'' and ''lady doctor''. Many find these to have a condescending nuance not shared by ''female lawyer'' or ''woman doctor''; compare ''poetess'' for a similar problem.
Advocates of non-sexist language recommend not using the word at all, whereas others permit its parallel use in the same circumstances in which a man would be called a gentleman or lord (for example, titling washrooms ''Men'' and ''Ladies'' would be considered sexist, but using either ''Men'' and ''Women'' or ''Ladies'' and ''Gentlemen'' would be acceptable; as is ''landlady'' as the parallel of ''landlord''.)
In the United States, notably among younger feminists of the 1990s and 00s influenced by riot grrl, "lady" has occasionally been reclaimed in a more ironic fashion. For example, Miranda July's Joanie 4 Jackie chain letter videotape project is said to consist of "lady-made movies," a feminist music and video distributor in North Carolina called itself Mr. Lady Records, and chorus of Le Tigre's song "LT Tour Theme" from the album Feminist Sweepstakes (2000) declares itself to be written "for the ladies and the fags."
More recent usage; a courteous title
Lady has only been used as the female equivalent of a gentleman, but as a socially acceptable female, the opposite of a harlot or bitch.
It is also referred to towards the end of the Usher song "Yeah!", in which Ludacris says men "''want a lady in the street, but a freak in the bed.''" This says that a lady is proper and polite in public.
Ladies in fiction
★ Lady of the Lake - A prominent figure in the Arthurian legends.
★ Lady Bracknell - Gwendolen Fairfax's mother from The Importance of Being Earnest.
★ Lady Hester Random - Autocratic dowager in ''Tea with Mussolini'', who is based on reality.
★ Lady Cassandra - Villain of the 9th and 10th Doctor Who, who appeared in The End of The World and New Earth.
★ Lady Catherine de Bourgh - Mr Darcy's aunt in Jane Austen's ''Pride and Prejudice''.
★ Lady Chatterley
★ Lady Dedlock - Wife of the baronet Sir Leicester Dedlock in Charles Dickens's ''Bleak House''.
★ Lady Everglot - The lady of the family Everglots, from Corpse Bride.
★ Ladies Galadriel, Éowyn, and Arwen from Lord of the Rings.
★ Lady Jessica - Noble lady of the fictional House Atreides from Dune.
★ Lady Westholme - A running candidate of Parliament from Agatha Christie's Appointment With Death.
★ Lady Macbeth - The clever and conniving wife of Macbeth in Shakespeare's Macbeth.
★ Lady Susan - One can make his own opinion about this character after reading the novel by Jane Austen.
★ Lady Windermere - Lady with unblemished reputation from Oscar Wilde's Lady Windermere's Fan: A Play About a Good Woman.
Kenny Rogers sings "Lady"
"Lady" is also the title of a 1980 love song by Kenny Rogers. It reached #1 in the US pop charts for 6 weeks and #12 in the UK. It was written by Rogers friend, Lionel Richie (who also did the song himself). The song appeared on Rogers' 1980 "Greatest Hits" album, which also reached Number 1 in the United States and sold over 30 million copies world-wide.
References
★ ''Merriam Webster's Dictionary of English Usage'' (Merriam-Webster, 1989), ISBN 0-87779-132-5.
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