LADY CAROLINE LAMB

''See also Lady Caroline Lamb (film)''
'The Lady Caroline Lamb' (13 November 1785–26 January 1828) was a novelist and British aristocrat, the only daughter of the 3rd Earl of Bessborough and Henrietta Ponsonby, Countess of Bessborough, with whom George IV fell in love. Although her husband was the 2nd Viscount Melbourne, the Prime Minister, she was never the Viscountess Melbourne, because she died before he acceded to the peerage; this is why she is known to history as Lady Caroline Lamb. She is most remembered for her tempestuous affair with Lord Byron in 1812.
Her social credentials also included being niece of the Duchess of Devonshire, and cousin (by marriage) of Lady Byron.

Contents

Youth and education

Marriage and family

Lord Byron

Literary career

Later life and death

Further Reading

Notes and references

External links

Youth and education

She was born 'the Honourable Caroline Ponsonby', and became 'Lady Caroline' when her father acceded to the earldom in 1793. She was considered delicate as a small child and spent much time in the country for her health, but from 1794 she lived at Devonshire House with her cousins: Lord Hartington (later the 6th Duke of Devonshire), Lady Georgiana and Lady Harriet Cavendish, and two children of Lady Elizabeth Foster and the Duke of Devonshire. She was educated at Devonshire House with these children, and was particularly close during childhood to Lady Harriet, who was only three months older.Leveson-Gower, Sir George (Ed.), ''Hary-O: the Letters of Lady Harriet Cavendish 1796-1809'', London: John Murray (1940).
Lady Morgan reported in her memoirs that Lady Caroline told her that she had grown up as a tomboy, and quite unable to read or write until adolescence. Lady Morgan's memoirs autobiography, diaries and correspondence, Owenson, Sydney (Lady Morgan), , , Wm. H. Allen & Co, 1862, ISBN 0-4045-6793-2
|editor=Dixon, William Hepworth While many scholars have accepted this (and other melodramatic claims Lady Morgan described) at face value,"Lady Caroline Lamb," The Literary Encyclopedia, published works of correspondence and about her family members make it extremely unlikely. The grandmother she shared with her Cavendish cousins, the formidable Dowager Lady Spencer, was zealously dedicated to promoting education, and later employed their governess as her own companion. This governess was Miss Selina Trimmer, who was the sister-in-law of Mrs Sarah Trimmer, a well-known and respected author of moral tales for children. She taught them an extensive curriculum, considerably beyond mere literacy. There is a published letter Lady Caroline wrote on 31 October 1796 (just before her eleventh birthday) that not only demonstrates her literacy, but also a merciless wit and talent for mimicry. Lady Caroline was exceptionally well educated at home, and also attended a school in Hans Place, London. In her early adult years, she not only wrote prose and poetry, but also took to sketch portraiture. These courtly skills stood her in good stead. She spoke French and Italian fluently, was skilled at Greek and Latin, and also enjoyed music and drama.

Marriage and family

In June, 1805, at the age of nineteen, she married the Hon. William Lamb, an up-and-coming young politician, and heir to the 1st Viscount Melbourne. They had been "mutually captivated" in the summer of 1802 during a visit to Brocket Hall, the Melbournes's country house. Her union with Lamb produced a son in 1807 and a premature daughter in 1809 who died within 24 hours.^[1] The loss of two children and the health problems of the surviving boy teamed with Lamb's consuming career ambitions to drive a wedge between the couple. There is some evidence (in an 1810 letter from Lady Caroline to Lady Melbourne) that Lamb was sexually promiscuous, and that he demanded the type of intemperate sexual shenanigans from his wife that would not be expected of a gentlewoman. The Lamb family also sought a formal separation of William and Caroline.

Lord Byron

In 1812, Lady Caroline embarked on her well-publicised affair with Lord Byron (the main theme of the film ''Lady Caroline Lamb''). She had attracted the attention of the poet through her accomplished wit and vivacity, and he in turn obsessed over her, actively trying to destroy her marriage to Lamb so that he might have her to himself. She was 27 to his 24, a mother, quick witted and able to hold her own in the cut-and-thrust world of a politician's wife, but none of this served her well; she fell for his ploys, and became ensnared in his obsession for her. Byron's concept of romance was to possess fully the object of one's desire, right up until the moment that one became bored. Lady Caroline was heartbroken by her treatment and abandonment by Byron. It was she who described the poet as "mad, bad, and dangerous to know" (on the other hand, in an early love letter Byron had chided her for her "total want of common conduct").
Contrary to legend, Lady Caroline was not blackballed at Almack's in 1812 for her affair with Byron. Rather, her vouchers to that exclusive club were rescinded in 1816 after she published ''Glenarvon''. Her cousin Harriet (by then Lady Granville), with whom her relationship had deteriorated after childhood, visited her in December 1816 and was so incredulous of her unrepentant behavior that she ended her description of the visit in a letter to her sister with: "I mean my visit to be annual."Leveson-Gower, F. (Ed.), ''Letters of Harriet Countess Granville 1810-1845'', London: Longmans, Green, and Co. (1894).

Literary career

After her liaison with Byron, Lady Caroline enjoyed some success as a novelist. ''Glenarvon'', a Gothic novel, was published anonymously in 1816, and included a thinly-disguised pen-picture of her former lover. She published two further novels, ''Graham Hamilton'' in 1822 and ''Ada Reis'' in 1823, and two narrative poems, mostly anonymously, during the following decade.

Later life and death

In 1824, she accidentally came across Byron's funeral cortège on its way to his burial place, and this incident drove her to a nervous breakdown, and rumoured insanity. She lived her last years in seclusion at Brocket Hall.

Further Reading

★ Paul Douglass (2004) ''Lady Caroline Lamb: A Biography''. Palgrave Macmillan.

Notes and references

1. The madness of writing: Lady Caroline Lamb's Byronic identity, Paul Douglass, , , Pacific Coast Philology, 1999

External links

★ 'CARO: The Lady Caroline Lamb Website: “Mad, Bad, and Dangerous to Know”?'

★ Lady Caroline Lamb

★ MAD, BAD AND DANGEROUS TO KNOW - The Life of Lady Caroline Lamb